When you think about it you are the sculptor, shaping your child’s life. You are Picasso painting the picture of your child’s future. We are the general-designers of our children’s outcomes. Ultimately they will paint their own canvas. However, we need to provide the brushes, paints and possibly help them understand their subject matter. We give them skills to shape and mold their outcomes and the colors for their attitudes and responses.
I’ve found that it helps to know yourself well before attempting to help someone else, including our children. One of the keys to knowing yourself and motivating your kids is to have a well thought-out destination. In other words, what outcome are you after? What do you want to accomplish? What do you want your kids to do? Do they have the tools and understand what is expected of them? If they have the tools and understand what is expected of them, do they have a reason for not doing what’s expected of them? Can you think of more compelling reasons and motivations for them to fulfill their expectations and responsibilities?
After the launch of my program “How To Motivate Your Kids – A Three Step System For Parents” A friend suggested it would be a good idea to re-post the video series on “Success Assets” for everyone to see. Unfortunately the comments from the original posting are not connected any longer. These 3 videos give you an idea of my personal motivation for doing this and a system I have helped other use over the past few years.
Click in the screen to see the first video (5 min aprox) in the Success Assets series
Click in the play button to see the second video (13 min aprox) in the Success Assets series
We all want the best for our children and we want them to have every opportunity to shine. The Success Assets are for parents who want their kids to tap into their highest potential.
Obviously the dates are no longer valid but if your interested in the course or program you can email me directly at James.Nichol@BestChild.org